Are you going to show up to the holiday party alone this year? Spend Valentines scrolling Facebook instead of snuggling with your soulmate? I know how it feels... I have done it. Many times.
Making up excuses and talking about how much you enjoy being single. (Which you probably do, but lets face it you wouldn't be here if you didn't want that to change.) Dating all the wrong people and wondering why you can't meet someone fun, smart and cool. Are you finally ready to attract your soulmate? Well then you are in the right place.
I have put together the definitive guide on how to attract your soulmate fast (just 11 days). It includes the secrets to find out where your soulmate spends their time, the critical trait needed for a soulmate (you can have a lover or a spouse, but not a soulmate without this) and signs from the Universe that your soulmate is nearby, you don't want to miss these.
What exactly is a Soulmate? Let's be clear...
Do you think that your soulmate is the one that completes you. The other half that will make you whole. If this is how you view your soulmate... then you are just not ready.
The truth is that you are complete and whole, as you are. Sharing life with someone is amazing, and your soulmate will teach you more than you can imagine, but you don't NEED them at all.
Letting go of this opens the door for you to find a true soulmate. Someone who compliments you not completes you. Someone who doesn't need you either, but definitely loves you. Someone who makes your life more juicy and passionate while maintaining their own goals and pursuits.
I want that... How do I attract my soulmate FAST!
It may seem crazy, but you can attract your soulmate fast, like really really fast... in 11 days. If you will focus your energy.
So what do you need to do?
I have put together a step by step plan, one day at a time. I explain the focus of each day and include printable affirmations, journal pages, charts and videos. (You can download a packet with all of the journal pages, charts and affirmations in the sidebar)
We also have a great 60 second quiz that will tell you exactly how close you are to your soulmate and what steps to focus on the most.
Do these steps with me and in 11 days you can attract your soulmate FAST!
How To Attract Your Soulmate Fast (In 11 days) - Outline
Day 1: What type of person would they date?
Day 2: Be Complete By Yourself
Day 3: Do What You Love
Day 4: Be In Integrity
Day 5: Reset Your Space
Day 6: Let Go Of Your Past
Day 7: Get Out And Get Seen
Day 8: Laugh Till Your Belly Hurts
Day 9: Raise Your Vibration
Day 10: Believe, Believe, Believe
Day 11: Recognize The Signs
Day 1: What Type Of Person Would They Date?
The law of attraction states that what we think about most becomes our reality. This is true, it is also incomplete. Before it becomes our reality, we have to become it.
What this means is that to attract a confident happy person, you have to be a confident happy person. You are a vibrational match for things that resonate at your frequency.
What is your frequency?
If you have cheated on your last two partners, but want a soulmate that is totally honest... well, you are not a match, yet. Your frequency is different from theirs. You have to start by realizing what energy you are creating in your life.
Now... visualize your dream life with your soulmate. What they look like, where they live, what you do together, see every detail. You need total clarity so that you can answer some really important questions?
What type of person would they date? What are their expectations from a partner? What is attractive to them? Where do they hang out?
How To Attract Your Soulmate Fast: Journal Prompt & Affirmation #1
Fill out the Type Of Person journal prompt to assess who you are looking for and what their life might look like. Then complete the bottom section to see how you could enhance your likelyhood of meeting them.
Download all of the journal pages, charts and affirmations here.
Day 2: Be Complete By Yourself
Are you needy? Do you crave attention and want your partner to be always focused on you?
Or are you comfortable with yourself. Are you happy with your world and looking for someone to add to an already great life?
This makes a big difference on who you will attract into your life. Let me tell you from experience, needy attracts needy. I didn't meet my soulmate when I was out looking for her, and neither will you.
Have you ever meet a salesman who just NEEDS a sale? You can smell it on them, the stink of desperation. When you are desperate for a partner, you give off the same smell, and the only one who likes it is another desperate person.
How did you describe your soulmate? Odds are you didn't say needy or desperate. To to attract someone who is mature and confident, you need to become mature and confident.
Confidence comes from our experiences, not our thoughts. Doing things that make you uncomfortable will boost your overall confidence. That way when a new or unexpected situation arises, you will be calm and focused. Traits that are attractive to both genders.
How To Attract Your Soulmate Fast: Exercise & Affirmation #2
Do one thing that scares you today. I don't mean something dangerous where you could get hurt, but just something out of your comfort zone. Tell a joke at an open mic night or go on a roller coaster you were always afraid of.
Download all of the journal pages, charts and affirmations here.
Day 3: Do What You Love
Yes, I realize you have to pay the bills. You can't just quit your job and become a street side juggler today. But if juggling is what you truly love, find a way to do it regularly. This is about being authentic, and not being afraid to show who you truly are.
See... you want to attract someone compatible to you. If you love going to comic book shows, you want a soulmate you can share that with, who supports your passion. If your partner criticized you and made fun of this... well that wouldn't be your soulmate.
By doing the things you love more often, you are likely to meet someone interested in those things. I love to paddle. Kayak, canoe, dingy, stand-up, if you can paddle it, I'm in. It was through paddling OC-6 (6 person canoe races held in Hawaii) that I met my wife and soulmate... even though she doesn't paddle?
My steersman played drums in a reggae band. One night he invited the crew out to one of his shows, it was there that I met a stunning brunette who would later become my wife. She didn't paddle, but she had friends who did. She thought it was cool and has always supported my paddling. That's a soulmate.
How To Attract Your Soulmate Fast: Journal Prompt & Affirmation #3
Fill out the Do What You Love journal prompt and discover how you can do more of what you love in your life.
Download all of the journal pages, charts and affirmations here.
Day 4: Be In Integrity
Integrity is defined as "the state of being whole and undevided". What does someone who is whole and undevided look like?
They know who they are and what they believe in. They are honest and follow their values in making decisions. People who have integrity don't compromise the things that matter. They don't take shortcuts and they don't cheat.
They are the people you want in your life, that you can count on. So... how is your integrity? Do you ever tell lies to make yourself look better? Do you cut corners and look for ways to get ahead? If so, you are not in full integrity.
This is critically important. You can find a partner and even a spouse, but if you are not fully integrated you will not find a true soulmate. The soulmate relationship requires you to be honest and show who you are, that is the fun of it.
How To Attract Your Soulmate Fast: Journal Prompt & Affirmation #4
Where are you out of integrity? Where do you cut corners.
Fill out the integrity journal prompt and fill it out to see where your actions don't align with your values.
Download all of the journal pages, charts and affirmations here.
Day 5: Reset Your Space
Imagine you are out on a walk today and you bump into your soulmate. The connection is amazing, you laugh and talk for hours. You want to keep talking all night. You want to invite them over for dinner, are you ready? Is your house in order? How does your car look?
If you want to attract your soulmate in 11 days you better be ready. So spurce up your space. Make it inviting. Is your bed pushed against the wall, only letting one person in and out? Are there food wrappers in your car?
You need to be ready at all times and that means keeping your space ready. Before meeting my wife I got a book on Feng Shui. I looked around and found a few things I could do to improve each room. When the chance came to invite her over I was ready and my home was welcoming.
How To Attract Your Soulmate Fast: Journal Prompt & Affirmation #5
Fill out the Reset Your Space journal prompt to see where you need some upgrades. If you need inspiration check out Pinterst. It is loaded with great decorating and space enhancing tips.
Download all of the journal pages, charts and affirmations here.
Day 6: Let Go Of Your Past
Yup, you knew it was coming eventually. The Ex's. This may be the least fun day of our journey, but it is very likely to be the most enlightening. That's because in the pain of our past relationships are the lessons for our growth.
So... which ones are you still holding on to. (If you said none you need to look deeper) Start by what you are holding on to. Go through the house and find all of the mementos of your past relationships. These are the special things: pictures, ticket stubs, clothing, the stuff that really reminds you of them.
No go on to your digital world. Are you still in contact with your Ex? How much and about what? What texts or videos (from your past relationships) have you held on to because they make you feel good, loved and cared about.
How To Attract Your Soulmate Fast: Journal Prompt & Affirmation #6
Fill out the Let Go Of Your Past journal prompt to see which relationships you are not over yet.
First... know that you will always love that person, and that is healthy, but you are letting go.
Knowing this... let go of the connections. Yes, get rid of the personal stuff. Until these connections are closed, you don't have receptors open for new connections.
Download all of the journal pages, charts and affirmations here.
Day 7: Get Out And Get Seen
You can't expect to cross paths with your soulmate if you spend every night at home binging to Tiger King on Netflix. You have to get out and get seen!
Important Note: With the recent onset of COVID-19 it may be unsafe to get out in your community. Please, be smart, if surfing is your jam you are probably safe. If you love going to concerts, you aren't. You will need to be creative. Look for Facebook groups or virtual meet-ups. You can still connect with someone amazing, who loves the things you do, without risking your health or the health of your loved ones.
The idea of this magic moment when you meet your soulmate is great for movies, but it sucks for real life. The truth is you probably have more than one soulmate out there, but all you need is one.
If you spend every day doing the same things with the same people, how do you expect to meet someone new.
How To Attract Your Soulmate Fast: Journal Prompt & Affirmation #7
Fill out the Get Out And Get Seen journal prompt to figure out how you can be seen more.
Download all of the journal pages, charts and affirmations here.
Day 8: Laugh Till Your Belly Hurts
Think back to that description of your soulmate, did you say dark and boring? No of course not, we all want a soulmate that is fun, uplifting and full of light. So start making every day fun by learning to play again.
Yes, you have to go shopping for groceries, but ride the cart through the parking lot and play in the toy isle. It will get you laughing and smiling, and in case you didn't know it, laughing and smiling are a great way to attract a soulmate.. fast.
Laughter triggers a huge series of changes in and around us. It boost immunity, reduces stress, but it also plays a huge role in connection. Laughter has been shown to be one of the best ways to strengthen a relationship and a sense of humor is the most attractive trait in a partner.
How To Attract Your Soulmate Fast: Journal Prompt & Affirmation #8
Fill out the Laugh Till Your Belly Hurts journal prompt to add more fun and laughter into your life.
Download all of the journal pages, charts and affirmations here.
Day 9: Raise Your Vibration
You have made really far, I congratulate you. You are truly dedicated to doing the work of finding a soulmate and you are almost there. We have aligned who you are with who you imagine spending your life with . Now it is time to send that energy out into the world.
Raising your vibration is about taking all of the small changes and decisions you have made along the way and uniting them with your spirit. Pay very close attention to your thoughts, they are the building blocks of your self image.
Be grateful, for all that you have and the blessings coming your way. Practice acts of generosity and kindness. A giving heart is a happy heart. Move and be active, the more you move around the more energy you send out, so dance and play in every moment.
How To Attract Your Soulmate Fast: Video & Affirmation #9
You are trying to take all of the refining you have done and integrate it. Click on the video below and listen along to this 90 second integration meditation while you repeat the phrases on the screen. Do this regularly to speed the process.
Download all of the journal pages, charts and affirmations here.
Day 10: Believe, Believe, Believe
You are amazing and I am proud of you. You have made the changes needed to attract your soulmate. Do you believe they are coming?
Believing is hard. It is an act of faith and for some that will take practice. You need to change the voice inside your head and that happens by repeating new thoughts
Listen, read, write. Any way you can repeat in your brain the idea that your soulmate is coming.
How To Attract Your Soulmate Fast: Journal Prompt & Affirmation #10
Fill out the Believe, Believe, Believe journal prompt and start writing. Copy your entries over and over. Read them out loud every chance you get. The more often you repeat these thoughts, the sooner you will believe.
Download all of the journal pages, charts and affirmations here.
Day 11: Recognize The Signs
I have spoken to many people who ask themselves the same thing. Was that person my soulmate? Maybe it was a brief conversation or a glance in passing, but something happened that made them wonder.
When you are ready, the Universe will begin to give you signs. Some are green lights telling you to move ahead, others are red lights signaling problems and danger.
If you don't understand these signs, you could miss a chance to meet your soulmate.
How To Attract Your Soulmate Fast: Chart & Affirmation #11
Take a look at the Recognize The Signs chart and read it a few times.
You don't need to memorize all of the signs. Just become familiar with them. That way when the Universe tries to give you a sign you will recognize it, and look up the meaning.
Download all of the journal pages, charts and affirmations here.
Now You Are Ready To Attract Your Soulmate... And Fast!
That's it. The entire step by step plan to attract your soulmate in 11 days, and it works. I am proof. I realize some of these steps may take you more than one day (they did for me) and that is common. Don't let it discourage you, just keep on working.
Even if your life is a total mess right now, you can do each step in a month. Would a wonderful life and a soulmate 11 months from now be that bad?
If you need a refresher along the way, we have a fun and illuminating video. It covers all of the main ideas in 11 min with whiteboard animation to help reinforce your learning. (You remember 20-25% more with whiteboards)
How To Attract Your Soulmate Fast Video
If there is anything you don't understand or have any suggestions, please leave them in the comments below. As always a Re-Pin or Like is sincerely appreciated.
Oh and in case you missed it, click on the banner below and take the quiz to find out just how close you are and what you should focus on.
Thanks again, and come back to let me know when you find your soulmate.
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